Showing posts with label A Course In Miracles. Show all posts
Showing posts with label A Course In Miracles. Show all posts

Monday, August 13, 2012

Combined Wisdome of Two Great Works

The Celestine Prophecy, by James Redfield includes great detail on Control Dramas. The Control Dramas are four specific types of manipulations that wounded souls are engaged in to manipulate those around them for love.  The Control Dramas are summarized as:  The Intimidators - who steal energy from others by threatening them.  The Interrogators who steal energy by judging and questioning those around them. The Aloof people who manipulate those around them by manipulating them to attract attention (and energy) to themselves by acting reserved or withdrawing from those around them.  The Poor Me's who manipulate us by making us feel guilty and responsible for them. 

If you seek to appease any soul in an active state of performing a control drama, you will learn nothing but
pain. Drawing from the wisdom of ACIM (A Course in Miracles) that touches on this same scenario but in the form of the illusion of the premise of attack in these souls and the illusions held by those on the receiving end, the goal for all involved is to transcend the control drama and stop manipulating others for energy and love. Giving love to all does not mean one offers one's self up as a human sacrifice. Giving love means: 1) you acknowledge the control drama comes from unhealed wounds within a person, 2) that you understand their manipulations and attacks have nothing to do with you at all and has to do with their attempt to transcend pain even through the creation of collateral damage (hurting you), 3) that you can forgive the harm they do to you as they are really only attempting to harm themselves (the attack upon you is an illusion - their premise is an illusion) and 4) that you rise above their battlefields where the blows cannot harm you and refuse to further engage in battle (forgive your brother/sister and forgive yourself...condemn them and condemn yourselves - e.g., counter attack). 
 
Know your limitations, know what is happening in a control drama, know the value of love and forgiveness and know that you do not have to engage in battle. When you draw your sword and do battle with those in a state of an active control drama, you condemn yourself to remaining mired in the illusion.  When you forgive your brothers and sisters, you rise above the battlefield and forgive yourself and set yourself free.  It seems pretty simple but its darn hard to learn. Every soul is worthy of love and every soul is worthy of forgiveness...it's just that it takes a long time sometimes for folks to gain the awareness enough to see. ~Blessings of higher love and understanding dear ones.
 
(c) Jaie Hart (Photo random internet find).  Note:  The concepts outlined are owned by their creators as is stated within the article above.  I do, however, gladly own the understanding that has come after many years of lessons with this subject.  The freedom this understanding brings is immediate and the healing that follows the ability to finally see the truth beyond the illusion is just beyond my ability to articulate at the moment. :)

Combined Wisdom of a Couple Great Works

.The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield includes great detail on control dramas.  In his book, Mr. Redfield outlines the control dramas and they can be summarized as: The Intimidators - who steal energy from others by threatening them. The Interrogators who steal it by judging and questioning those around them.  The Aloof people who attract attention (and attempt to steal energy) for themselves by acting reserved or withdrawing from those around them. The Poor Me's who attempt to make us feel guilty and responsible for them. If you seek to appease any soul in an active state of performing a control drama, you will learn nothing but pain. Drawing from the wisdom of ACIM (A Course in Miracles), the goal for all involved is to transcend the control drama and stop manipulating others for energy and love. Giving love to all does not mean one offers one's self up as a human sacrifice. Giving love means: 1) you acknowledge the control drama comes from unhealed wounds within a person, 2) that you understand their manipulations and attacks have nothing to do with you at all and has to do with their attempt to transcend pain even through the creation of collateral damage (hurting you), 3) that you can forgive the harm they do to you as they are really only attempting to harm themselves (the attack upon you is an illusion - their premise is an illusion) and 4) that you rise above their battlefields where the blows cannot harm you and refuse to further engage in battle (forgive your brother/sister and forgive yourself...condemn them and condemn yourselves - e.g., counter attack). Know truly what you are contending with...know too, your limitations, know what is happening in a control drama, know the value of love and forgiveness and know that you do not have to engage in the battle and that engaging in the battle from the battlefield only causes more harm for the person mired in a control drama and creates much conflict and wasted energy for you.

It seems pretty simple but its darn hard to learn. Every soul is worthy of love and every soul is worthy of forgiveness...it's just that it takes a long time sometimes for folks to gain the awareness enough to see.  Open your eyes and see the truth through the illusion so tightly weaved in the webs of manipulation.  Know that within your own body, you can feel this manipulation and stop it by refusing to engage in it.  If you draw your sword and engage in battle, you live out your own control drama and may miss an opportunity to transcend it.  If you love and forgive, you are carried out of the battlefield and can see only the truth of the matter. ~Blessings of higher love and understanding dear ones.

(c) Jaie Hart (photo, random internet find)  Note - the concepts discussed in this article stem from copy right works as titled and noted within the article.  I do not own the concepts but I very  much appreciate owning the understanding that has finally dawned on my own sleeping mind mired too long in illusion. :) <3 br="br">

Sunday, August 12, 2012

The Illusion of the Verbal Attack

I've been a student of ACIM (A Course in Miracles) for the better part of almost ten years now.  In all honesty, I have felt I was not a very good student at all as there was a concept I mostly understood in part but still was so mired in my own illusions that I could not comprehend the concept well enough to engage in practical application in real life.  So, the Universe in it's infinite wisdom sent me several practice tests over almost 10 years in order that I might finally get the lesson.  For whatever reason, today, it makes sense.  The lesson comes back to me this very evening after opening my big blue book to page 495, Chapter 23 THE WAR AGAINST YOURSELF, Section III. Salvation without Compromise.  The concept and lesson is summarized as follows - based on my understanding which some of my more astute ACIM student friends may wish to add or suggest correction at will if my understanding is off.  Know that this particular lesson, when I first read it, made me shut the book and have it collect dust for a year.  I laugh now...but it was too painful for me to understand when I first read this section.  So, my understanding after learning is as follows:

1.  Guilt, shame and pain stem from wounds a person holds.  These wounds cut a person off from feeling love (their own, God's or anyone else's).  When cut off from love, some people will attack others and viciously just to get love and if they don't get love specifically on their conditions, the attacks will increase and increase until all are so weary from battle that no one knows what to do anymore.

2.  When a person attacks you from this place, they are not evil, they are not sinners and they are not horrible people.  What they are is wounded and in so much pain that they would create whatever damage to others they had to in order to get love in any form they may extract or derive from you.  Sometimes the attention or energy whether positive or negative is viewed as love or fulfills their need in their state of illusion on the subject.

3.  When this kind of attack befalls you, realize the source of a person's behavior and that their attack upon you is initiated not really to hurt you but to suffer the pain you will inflict upon them in retaliation.  They want what they have deemed themselves unworthy to hold and so they must attack to get you to reinforce their fear that they are not worthy of love...they are cut off from Source, from God and they are guilty, shameful and hurting so terribly.  This is the most common cry for help and for love.

4.  Retaliation creates conflict for you and as the battle rages on, you lose more and more of yourself until you begin to understand the true source of the conflict.  In that moment when you hear the cry for love...that moment that you hear the cry for help, there is another action that you can take to free this soul from pain and battle with you and free yourself from the conflict.

5.  Restore them to their rightful place in your mind as a child of the Creator, no lesser than you nor anyone else.  Understand them and acknowledge them as a child of the Creator and that you love them as such.  The giving of your love comes through learning to forgive the pain they cannot help but try to inflict.  When you realize the pain is intended to hurt them and not really you, there is no harm done to you.  In this, forgiveness and love is a simple matter.

6.  Whether the battle rages on from their side or not is of no significance as you have answered the call for help.  The conflict will then be resolved for you and you are free to leave the battle field.  You are not obligated to succumb to their demands.  The call to you is only for love and forgiveness.  Give that and give it fully.

Nothing in this concept says that you are obligated to throw down your arms and defense to become a human sacrifice and stand there taking the beating.  What the concept is trying to teach you is that there is no verbal beating.  This isn't about you and it is about the cry for help.  Reacting to the cry with more pain inflicting actions and words is not answering the cry for help or love.  It keeps the pain reinforced.  It keeps you mired in the conflict if not physically then energetically.  If you wish to be free, love and forgive despite the error in the thinking of the other and then leave the battlefield.  The battlefield is an illusion.

It is not up to you to command that the soul in pain see the illusion and the error of their ways. It is truly error on their parts that designed the attack, conditioned the love you would give and would seemingly punish you for not giving.  That is not the case at all.  You are called to love and forgive, to understand, to realize the source to diffuse the impact on YOU.  There is no impact in this regard unless you choose also to see the illusion.  The attack is unreal when you understand the source of the attack.  Your challenge when you run into these people is neither to suffer nor become a human sacrifice.  Your challenge is to see the illusion and rise above the battle to where it cannot hurt you or can hurt you no longer.  Understanding is how it is done, detachment from egotistical control is the cost, love is what sets the stage for your freedom and forgiveness is they key that unlocks the gate.

I'm grateful I returned to this painful lesson.  Aspects of it I understood for a very long time but now I see so much that I didn't before see.  I almost had it right so many times but failed to see the illusion through my own.  I'm so grateful tonight as I write.  This lesson has had so many moving pieces and parts for me for many years and now, I understand.  Without time and lots of consideration and even practice, this lesson can easily be rejected as insane ranting.  I thought so too at first.  But now I see its infinite wisdom from so many facets.  Its truly beautiful and the freedom it brings is beyond words.  ~Blessings of love and higher understanding dear ones.

(c) 2012 Jaie Hart (photo is a beautiful random internet find)

Sunday, August 5, 2012

The Little Garden (ACIM)


I was writing an article this morning on a troubling topic.  I paused for a moment and opened A Course in Miracles to a random page instead.  As I read the passage I smiled. Talk about your perfectly timed messages.  I will share the passage that I randomly found in its totality.  It is a very important passage for those who wish to understand a little more about our construct and basis toward motion and action within this limited framework we now find ourselves in - that we chose to be in here at this time.  And now, the passage titled:  The Little Garden

1. It is only the awareness of the body that makes love seem limited. For the body is a limit on love. The belief in limited love was it's origin, and it was made to limit the unlimited. Think not that this is merely allegorical, for it was made to limit you. Can you who see yourself within a body know yourself as an idea? Everything you recognize you identify with externals, something outside itself. You cannot even think of God without a body, or in some form you think you recognize.

2. The body cannot know. And while you limit your awareness to its tiny senses, you will not see the grandeur that surrounds you. God cannot come into a body, nor can you join Him there. Limits on love will always seem to shut Him out and keep you apart from Him. The body is a tiny fence around a little part of a glorious and complete idea. It draws a circle, infinitely small, around a very little segment of Heaven, splintered from the whole, proclaiming that within it is your kingdom where God can enter not.

3. Within this kingdom the ego rules, and cruelly. And to defend this little speck of dust it bids you to fight against the universe.  This fragment of your mind is such a tiny part of it that, could you but appreciate the whole, you would see instantly that it is like the smallest sunbeam to the sun, or like the faintest ripple on the surface of the ocean.  In its amazing arrogance, this tiny sunbeam has decided it is the sun; this almost imperceptible ripple hails itself as the ocean.  Think how alone and frightened is this little thought, this infinitesimal illusion, holding itself apart against the universe.  The sun becomes the sunbeam's "enemy" that would devour it, and the ocean terrifies the little ripple and wants to swallow it.

4. Yet neither sun nor ocean is even aware of all this strange and meaningless activity.  They merely continue, unaware that they are feared and hated by a tiny segment of themselves.  Even that segment is not lost to them, for it could not survive apart from them.  And what it thinks it is in no way changes its total dependence on them for its being.  its whole existence still remains in them.  Without the sun the sunbeam would be gone; the ripple without the ocean is inconceivable.

5.  Such is the strange position in which those in a world inhabited by bodies seem to be.  Each body seems to house a separate mind, a disconnected thought, living alone and in no way joined to the Thought by which it was created.  Each tiny fragment seems to be self-contained, needing another for some things, but by no means totally dependent on its one Creator for everything; needing the whole to give it any meaning, for by itself it does mean nothing.  Nor has it any life apart and by itself.

6.  Like to the sun and ocean your Self continues, unmindful that this tiny part regards itself as you.  It is not missing; it could not exist if it were separate, nor would the whole be whole without it.  It is not a separate kingdom, ruled by an idea of separation from the rest.  Nor does a fence surround it, preventing it from joining with the rest, and keeping it apart from its Creator.  This little aspect is no different from the whole, being continuous with it and at one with it.  It leads no separate life, because its life is the oneness in which its being was created.

7. Do not accept this little, fenced-off aspect as yourself.  The sun and ocean are as nothing beside what you are.  The sunbeam sparkles only in the sunlight, and the ripple dances as it rests upon the ocean.  yet in neither sun nor ocean is the power that rests in you.  Would you remain with your tiny kingdom, a sorry king, a bitter ruler of all that he surveys, who looks on nothing yet who would still die to defend it?  This little self is not your kingdom.  Arched high above it and surrounding it with love is the glorious whole, which offers all its happiness and love is the glorious whole, which offers all its happiness and deep content to every part.  The little aspect that you think you set apart is no exception.

8.  Love knows no bodies, and reaches to everything created like itself.  Its total lack of limit is its meaning.  It is completely impartial in its giving, encompassing only to preserve and keep complete what it would give.  In your tiny kingdom you have so little!  Should it not, then, be there that you would call on love to enter?  Look at the desert--dry and unproductive, scorched and joyless--that makes up your little kingdom.  And realize the life and joy and love would bring to it from where it comes, and where it would return with you.

9. The Thought of God surrounds your little kingdom, waiting at the barrier you built to come inside and shine upon the barren ground.  See how life springs up everywhere!  The desert becomes a garden, green and deep and quiet, offering rest to those who lost their way and wander in the dust.  Give them a place of refuge, prepared by love for them where once a desert was.  And everyone you welcome will bring love with him from Heaven for you.  They enter one by one into this holy place, but they will not depart as they had come, alone.  The love they brought with them will stay with them, as it will stay with you.  And under its beneficence your little garden will expand, and reach out to everyone who thirsts for living water, but has grown too weary to go on alone.

10. Go out and find them, for they bring your Self with them.  And lead them gently to your quiet garden, and receive their blessing there.  So will it grow and stretch across the desert, leaving no lonely little kingdoms locked away from love, and leaving you inside.  And you will recognize yourself, and see your little garden gently transformed into the Kingdom of Heaven, with all the Love of its Creator shining up it.

11.  The holy instant is your invitation to love to enter into your bleak and joyless kingdom, and to transform it into a garden of peace and welcome.  Love's answer is inevitable.  It will come because you came without the body, and interposed no barriers to interfere with its glad coming.  In the holy instant, you ask of love only what it offers everyone, neither less nor more.  Asking for everything, you will receive it.  And your shining Self will lift the tiny aspect that you tried to hide from Heaven straight to Heaven.  No art of love calls on the whole in vain  No Son of God remains outside His Fatherhood.

12.  Be sure of this; love has entered your special relationship, and entered fully at your weak request.  You do not recognize that love has come, because you have not yet let go of all the barriers you hold against your brother.  And you and he will not be able to give love welcome separately.  You could no more know God alone than He knows you without your brother.  But together you could no more be unaware of love than love could know you not, or fail to recognize itself in you.

13.  You have reached the end of an ancient journey, not realizing yet that it is over.  You are still worn and tired, and the desert's dust still seems to cloud your eyes and keep you sightless.  Yet He Whom you welcomed has come to you, and would welcome you.  He has waited long to give you this.  Receive it now of Him, for He would have you know Him.  Only a little wall of dust still stands between you and your brother.  Blow on it lightly and with happy laughter, and it will fall away.  And walk into the garden love has prepared for both of you.

My observation:  The ego holds a strong control over the reality and totality of who we are but the ego does not hold all the power.  The ego holds fear and creates only from a place of fear and that fear breeds separation and a false sense of identity and self and seeks to make itself greater or lesser than others all from fear.  To realize this tiny piece of ourselves exists is very important.  To know also that this very tiny piece of us that exists does not have to be given free reign to continue separating and lonely thoughts and further creating from fear the very things that keep us separate.  The soul knows it's relation to the whole, fully and with great love.  The soul observes the ego's machinations and is not controlled by it.  The body's consciousness creates the ego to protect itself.  But it does not have to control the mind, heart and soul and won't the moment you realize the ego's machinations are small compared to the powerful being that you are as a part of the whole.  It is from this place, the place of the whole that our self-love stems and it is from this place we can create the most amazing and rewarding experiences in this life.  Do not look at the ego machinations of the people you see in this world.  Do not minimize or belittle them by judging them from the tiniest aspect of their being as their wholeness.  Your brother is you and you are your brother.  The tiny egos within us all create the separation.  The body and soul can speak in truths but you must learn first to set aside the ego in order to receive the truth.  It takes years of practice and those of you who say you have no ego - know that this is merely the ego's defense.  All of us incarnate have an ego - a little self that thinks itself very big and in control.  When you can step into the seat of the soul you can see the difference in your soul's consciousness versus the ego's consciousness and once you have seen it, then know your wings are growing and you are about to return to flight.  Blessings of great love, light and understanding dear souls!

(c) 2012 Jaie Hart (photo, random internet find - Passage as is stated, A Course In Miracles, Foundation for Inner Peace).