Sunday, January 11, 2015
Chasing Rainbows is a Worthy Endeavor - Just Don't Mind the Rain
Watching the sunrise through gray skies and rain is no less beautiful than when the clouds are all gone. The colors change but even the shades of gray broken up by fresh green grass and the few leaves left on the trees washed clean can be incredibly inspirational. The quality of the color of the skies leading up to and then following those rainy days are like magic to me. Sometimes I think I know all of the colors and then I’ll drive into the sunrise awestruck at having discovered new shades of smoky neon pink and silver and golden tinged peach. Oh, can you just imagine it? For nearly half a century I’ve watched the sun rise and set and still I am learning about new colors?! What?!
Okay, maybe that’s a bit too peppy for this cool rainy Sunday but I don’t really care. I love it when it rains and I love it when it doesn’t. I love every day and when I think of my life in this way I find the colors change. Blue is not just blue, it’s cerulean or azure. Red isn’t just red, it’s scarlet or crimson. Your perception is what you allow it to be. It can be heavy with the filters of your experiences in life that limit the colors right in front of you OR it can be transparent and open allowing the full spectrum of unanticipated or before known to you colors to appear on your horizons in the blink of an eye. It’s amazing when you notice the befores and the afters.
I have seen dark stormy days that seemed like they’d never end. Sometimes this or that created this filter of experience that left me feeling as if I were trapped in this vortex of absolute dire distress, doom and gloom. Lucky for me I figured out that such moments are usually short in duration if and only if I decide to shove the negativity out of my perspective and open up to the lesson instead. What caused the darkness to enter my realm of experience? Was it the lingering past hurt I forgot about? Was it that one that occurred so long ago I allowed to be reinforced over and over again unchallenged? Was it just an unfortunate series of tragedies and stress? No matter. All can still eventually be dealt with through greater understanding. There is a reason we encounter the things we do and it is up to us regarding how we wish to integrate that into our experience.
At first it doesn’t seem like we have a choice. Environmental psychology may have dictated our deeply ingrained beliefs laced with fear and wounding. But, when we begin to understand the true source of those things, challenge all facets of thwm in terms of proving the beliefs to be truths or a series of misguided falsehoods, we can learn to embrace a new experience all-together and one free from the filters of the past psychological trauma and drama. It can be done. I’m telling you from experience and not just some made up positivity mumbo jumbo that won’t do you any good. I have walked through the darkness of despair. I have challenged my beliefs and rooted out their misguided existence and I have faced the pain, the terror, the fear and worry and then a light appeared at the end of a very long, dark and lonely road…freedom….the colors of life in a full spectrum…and all the love in the universe.
I won’t lie, it’s not an easy road and there is no one that can bring you there, give you a pill or point you to a drive through where you order up some healing to lift the filters of a life filled with malware and pain. You have to be the one who wants to do the work first and then it is you who must map out the steps, find a way to leave behind you the fear of the dark and embrace hard work, roll up your sleeves and dig into the stuff that just prevents you from experiencing the beauty and magic of this world. Sometimes you do need help with that – so get it. What are you waiting for anyway? (smiles). You can do so much to create joy, beauty and magic in your life. You don’t have to spend a lot of money, but you do need to invest in yourself in some way. Figure out what makes you tick; figure out what you really love without the filters of worry, fear and pain. Find something healthy to do to lift your spirits knowing that THAT is your true state and if you are not now in it, you can be. You really can be.
The picture above is not the prettiest picture or the best shot I could have taken and that doesn’t even matter…what matters is I saw it…a beautiful rainbow right there in the sky and I shot it to remember that the memory of the rain coming in to cover the sun brought me the gift of a rainbow. There are so many gifts in life if we decide to look for the beauty, the color and enjoy life even if a storm is rolling in. We were meant to enjoy life. Find a way, a very whole and healthy way and walk that road not with hope born of fear it cannot be but with the very strong faith born of love and truth that lies deep within the heart of you to get you there. You can. Really!
© 2015 Jaie Hart (photo and words)