Saturday, December 27, 2014

The Illusion of Pain

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I was thinking a lot over the holidays having a lot of time to just relax and do absolutely nothing (which is rare for me).  I was thinking specifically about emotional pain.  Having a strong interest in helping others understand and come to terms with pain, I was toying with an idea.  I’ve written in my books about the concept of malware.  Malware as I’ve used it is very much like a computer virus that get’s in and infiltrates your computer’s operating system.  I see pain not at all differently.  It becomes like an emotional virus that infiltrates and infects our mental human operating system.  Once resident (and there is something resident in all of us), it results in pain deep within us that causes our perspectives to be jaded, skewed and well, often, completely inaccurate.  It causes us to lose our ability to see the truth in our human interactions.  There is much we can do once we realize that we have something within us that needs our attention.  We can learn to find out what it is, understand it and then learn to see things differently thus minimizing the effect of the “malware.” 

A interesting thought I had was whether pain ever truly healed or not.  I mean, it seems that once we have been emotionally wounded, those wounds never seem to go away. At least not entirely (if they did, how come we keep being triggered?). We go through our lives reacting, wincing, transferring and projecting the pain that we’ve suffered to and through others as we interact with each other. I think malware stems from beliefs we have created around emotional wounds. For some, the malware is mostly benign and so there is no real or dramatic harm done. But for others, this malware becomes an epic roadblock to our ability to have and maintain healthy human relationships.  What do we do then?  Is there no hope?  Is there no cure?  I think that the pain caused by malware (and that term should be read as a hidden belief held with a pain charged memory) cannot ever be healed.  Yes.  You read that right.  Pain suffered emotionally cannot be healed.  It remains resident like the RAM resident programs in your computer’s operating system (e.g., programs that take up memory continually while your computer is running – draining and dragging on your computer’s performance).  This malware in the human mental operating system does the same thing.  It runs in the background taking up precious energy, clouding our memories, our vision and our experience and there it remains, mostly undetected by us consciously.  Oh, others may see it and even draw it to our attention but in so doing, it just results in poking the wound causing us to react.

I have proposed that pain cannot be healed.  That once you have formed a belief with an emotionally charged memory, the pain is there and remains forever resident in our mental operating system.  Well, that is until you can find the precise belief that is at the true core of the malware and seek to understand it.  Now, that understanding part is like climbing Mount Everest and just like climbing said mountain, you’ll need a guide.  You truly need someone to help you navigate unfamiliar terrain, to help guide you around the cervices, canyons and steep slippery slopes.  It isn’t easy.  But, once you have engaged in the climb and endeavored to find and root out those beliefs that formed emotionally charged memories that resulted in malware running in the background of your conscious existence, you can begin to understand.  Once you come to understand the belief at the core of the pain, you don’t really heal it or make it go away but you come to understand it.  Once you come to understand it, you start removing the energetic charge of emotion.  With the highest level of understanding possible, you could completely transform the malware through understanding and then the whole belief and its perceived emotional harm can be transformed as if it where a fog being dissipated by the sun’s light.  We don’t remove it completely in this regard but we understand it.  Through awareness, we can understand our own behavior and eliminate reactions to certain situations that trigger the original pain from the belief.  Once you can get to this plateau, you can walk a little taller, with more confidence and less of the malware filters your experiences.  You learn to react differently.

Now, how do you know if you have something infecting your human mental operating system?  There are many ways to tell.  What are you afraid of?  What causes you the most pain?  What do you dislike the most in others?  What do you dislike in yourself?  What have been the sticking points in current or past relationships?  Did you know that you are so amazing that you will actually attract to you the very specific kinds of people you need to interact with that will help bring the original belief to light?  Did you know this isn’t limited to personal relationships and that it can happen on the job, during shopping trips or even while driving?  We even invite certain situations to us that will brush up against that belief and cause us to wince a little bit not as punishment but as a reminder that something is resident in the psyche that maybe shouldn’t be.  If you can find it, and I do not by any stretch of the imagination mean to suggest that it is a simple and easy process, but you can dissipate the malware through understanding.  When you can do this, your perceptions and perspectives are automatically transformed and your old behaviors and desires for interactions are also transformed bringing you new and hopefully healthier experiences.

I think that we run into these situations on purpose.  I think it is part of our life or lesson plan to take on certain things to over come.  That doesn’t mean we have to stay stuck in the class.  See my article on A Class in Life for some additional food for thought.  I believe that we were not put here to suffer for our sins (or past beliefs that formed emotionally charged painful memories).  I believe that we were put here to learn and transform the things we hold within our egoic selves or little “c” consciousness that prevent us from knowing fully the truth about us.  Once you can find a way to dig deep beneath the layers of the accumulated beliefs that have truly caused you nothing but pain and a compromised human mental operating system, you can live a more meaningful life with a sense of greater well-being.  Anything is possible when you make up your beautiful mind and take action.  As the Tao Te Ching says, even a 1,000-mile journey begins with a single step.  So too, does the journey of healing begin.  Although healing is a funny word, when you get to the true essence of it, healing isn’t really about finding an emotional wound and treating it.  It is removing the idea of something you think exists through understanding the truth from a 360-degree perspective. When you can get there, all illusions fall away.  Pain never just heals on its own with time.  It is a filter we carry with us to protect certain wounds we believe that we have accumulated.  And, well, we do have them as long as we choose to run certain programs (read:  View certain experiences in a specific way to protect yourself from pain).  Sometimes just acknowledging something exists and going through the pain helps you to release it.  However, when you can come to a state of true understanding, the original wound in the mind is eliminated through the transformation by understanding it.  The pain is gone, we heal and learn to live with our experience as well as learn to integrate the emotions and all of the reinforcements of it that we’ve carried all of these years.  That does take time but it is worth it to explore I think.  A life lived in emotional pain is a tough life to live.  If you find yourself there mentally, physically or spiritually, please do seek out the right kind of assistance for yourself.  You have so many options from self-help books, counselors in psychology, metaphysics or spiritual…all can be of assistance if you want it.

My theory is just that, a theory.  I write about this often and have touched on these subjects in a number of my books written specifically to bring light to these concepts.  ChangingPerspectives:  The Journey is theDestination, ExpandingHorizons:  Growth and Beyond, So, It’s Over.  Now What?, Awakening from the Dream and Solving for X all carry this theme as does my online training course, Exploring the Conscious Self (see Training tab).  We all carry what we carry for very good reasons and through the experience of carrying wounds, we learn.  This means that an emotional wound is not a death sentence but an opportunity or challenge, if you are to take up the challenge you actually presented for yourself to overcome.  That is the metaphysical or spiritual twist to all of this, I suppose.  As a metaphysical practitioner, I cannot help but look to all sources for understanding.  Through being resourceful and tenacious, I find there is nothing I cannot overcome. The only failure one can ever truly achieve is never trying.  But even in that, we have a choice.  We can endeavor to grow with intention or continue to unconsciously.  Life truly is amazing.  With my theory, I have intended to paint a picture of understanding because I have discovered that this simple act of understanding or being open to understanding or seeking understanding has become the key that has unlocked so very many doors for me.  I hope understanding opens doors for you as well.

As you go into the New Year, I challenge you to consider “understanding” in all that you do.  I challenge you to become very curious about your lives and the multiple meanings every single interaction and event holds.  Enjoy your time here in every way that you possibly can.  I wish you great blessings of love, light and understanding.

 
© 2014, J.L. Harter (photo and words)




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Tuesday, December 23, 2014

Book by Jaie Hart: Awakening from the Dream is out now!



This work represents both an ending and a beginning and that is much the way life is….endings and beginnings. Dreams begin and end. Lives begin and end. There is one thing, however, that has no end and that is our Consciousness. Within this work I explore Life in the context of a Dream and the impact of our eventual awakening within that Dream. We all carry the seeds of awakening within us and at just that right moment, we will all awaken from The Dream.

Available at Http://www.jaiehart.com


Sunday, December 7, 2014

A Class in Life



Consider something way far outside of the lines for a moment.  Clear your mind of all preconceived notions, perceptions and beliefs.  Go back into the imaginary part of your being like that of childhood where imagination was plentiful and so much fun.  Imagine a moment; a time before this life.  Imagine that lives were like a catalog of classes that you wished to take to learn.  So, you visit the grand library in a crystal city far far away outside of time and space and you have your guidance counselors with you knowing your history, the levels of the learning you have achieved so far.  Imagine vast catalogs of potential life classes that you could choose to take.  Imagine selecting one and studying it, spending time contemplating your spirit and your soul and where it needs strength or more experience.  Imagine now selecting a life plan that presents you with all sorts of possibilities to support the life lesson (or class) you wished to choose for incarnation in this realm.



You carefully consider and discuss with your guides the life you have chosen.  You converse with your soul family and decide upon a most opportune course of study in the realm of Earth in this Third-Dimensional existence.  You prepare for the life as you would a college course.  You brush up on the knowledge you’ll need to take with you.  You might study a bit of some of the similar courses you’ve taken (e.g., other lives) that call to you in full remembrance the other lives in which you have previously learned things that might help you in the next class like taking and completing all lower level math classes before ascending into algebra, calculus and then trig.  You brush up and ready yourself to incarnate here on Earth in this dimension through concentrated conscious projection.



The thing about the life or class that you choose is that there must be a premise from which you operate or handicaps of various kinds that will set up for you the most perfect opportunity to truly learn.  Maybe you have to take a life you might from this life consider as difficult as calculus or something like it but although you’ve studied all other forms of math, this time, you don’t get to take your notes or your calculator.  The design of the program you set up with your guides and soul family creates an ample opportunity for you to learn and slowly over time your memories of prior learnings will become reinforced as you live the next life.  Knowing this, you gladly leave those memories behind or the calculator even because you know these things are ingrained within the memories within the archives of your soul.  At the right time and with the right study, the lessons previously learned will represent themselves in new places, faces or times.  So, you come (project your consciousness into Earth) and you grow with a family that helps reinforce the premise or handicap.  I have called this malware but it is not some victimizing thing at all but rather the very thing that helps you learn and reinforce all prior learning when you incarnate.



While projecting your consciousness here in this frame, you remain connected to your spirit back home, your guides and the idea or concept of the lesson plan chosen.  You also carry with you the latent memories within your soul that you can, at the right time, access.  You grow into your life incarnate on Earth and have many experiences that reinforce your learning.  Whatever it is you set out to learn, your life is perfectly designed to bring to you the most opportune events and people to assist you in your learning.  There will be those who share similar lessons or the opposite aspect of what you are learning in terms of other Soul Family who incarnated here with you and together you learn and together you grow.  You continue in this fashion until your spirit has gained all of the knowledge you wished and then it begins to fade its projection in the Third-Dimensional reality.  The vital essence of the body begins to subside, the fullness of your body’s experience appears to deteriorate and you turn gray and begin aging all in perfect time holding all of the new and beautiful lessons you have had the opportunity to learn.  The final day comes and you let go of this projection here and then with a final breath in the manner of your planning and choosing comes and you allow the projection to be turned off.



You find yourself now in the space between and eventually make your way back to the place you truly started from, Elsewhere.  When you arrive back home you are greeted by guides and loved ones so happy to see you return and so eager to hear how your journey of life went and you celebrate together the things that you learned and you receive encouragement for your efforts and you debrief from the lesson or class just completed.  You rest and recuperate glad you got through it, grateful for the opportunity to learn and then you sit and take it all in with all the other things that you’ve learned.  If more learning is what you most need, you know the way back to the Grand library and can strike out again and may wish to retake portions of your last lesson because you could have done it better or you may wish to assist one of your soul family members who wanted to retest his or her abilities in form.



In contemplating all of the various levels humanity seems to exist within, this idea, this imaginary idea seems to speak to the reason why there are all manner of experiences here…some good and some bad but what if every class isn’t your favorite class?  Sometimes we must take classes we’re not very good at and look around you, some people are not very good at this thing called life and that is really and truly okay because by the very act of them being present here, they learn and as they learn, they expand the collective of knowledge.  Each spirit that projects here to learn adds to the seasoning of the dish or the color of the artwork that is the Whole of our shared Consciousness.  If we can contemplate this view if even for a moment, we can find greater compassion for others here learning instead of raw toxic judgment.  What do you think?



© 2014 Jaie Hart (photo Google - aetherforce.com)

Precious Seconds

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We can neither hold another’s happiness nor put the responsibility on another to hold our happiness.  At least not if we expect to live a normal and healthy well-adjusted and balanced life.  But here’s the thing, not all of us are here to live a normal and healthy well-adjusted and balanced life.  We judge those that come here with a different life plan than ours.  There are those who come here to live out the darker side of their nature and in doing so, their knowledge lends to the whole yet a different but no less important dimension to our global understanding.  It’s easy and often insensitive to tell others “Just be happy” or “Just choose the light” for some are unable and wholly ill-equipped to do that due to the various forms of malware running rampant in their psyches or the frameworks from which they operate.  Their life plans are no better or worse than yours.  If you judge their goals by your own, you may judge them as horrible, dramatic or wrong in their behavior but what if it is the Truth that we are wrong?  What if it is that it is we who do not understand the much broader paradigm of lesson learning here on the Earth plane?

The Earth School is filled with comedies and tragedies great!  We learn from both the negative and the positive and do with that information what ever it is we choose to.  To tell the depressed, just be happy is insulting.  To tell the criminally insane to just behave is a waste of breath.  To tell the racists to just stop it may be justified but can they just stop it given the framework of their fear and understanding?  None of these groups have learned yet the things they intended to learn and what if, what if they are actually here to teach those of us who are aware what is better for us to engage in if we wish to live better, love more and find happiness?  I personally don’t find these behaviors savory to be honest and would that I controlled the world, there are a good number of things I would gladly eradicate but who am I to decide what this world should be?  There is a power greater than I at work in the design and development of this paradigm within which we live here in life on Earth.  We co-create and must learn to co-exist with love, with dignity, with honor and respect at least at some level I think.  With some, this can be learned in one go at life here in the Earth school but with others it takes them many lessons and many life times to “get it” and by “get it” I mean the deeper lessons of the beautiful potential of humanity.

I lean towards sensitivity, love, respect, honor and integrity but that is me and my life path.  Those that do not align with those aspects in their life paths cannot be measured by mine and in truth, mine can not be measured by theirs.  I’m a live and let live kind of soul at heart but I can say and I will say that it hurts me to see the depths some souls sink to in their learning, the desperation that exists causing so much harm, strife, hatred and fear in this world.  To me, it seems unnecessary and a very tough row to hoe or road to travel but that is just my perspective and my perspective is only the culmination of my life experience and my collective judgments of all that I see, hear and feel filtered through my perception of the world.  I would like to judge murder, abuse of any kind and dishonesty wrong but if I do that in the absence of understanding a soul’s path or what that soul may be learning through suffering, my judgment neither helps those I witness nor supports them in their journey.  In fact, it can actually hinder me on my journey in ways I cannot comprehend. I can only seek to understand and judge myself accurately and sometimes I even struggle with that.

When I witness the activities of some inhabitants of this world, my heart breaks.  It breaks for the collateral damage that runs on for an eternity in waves that touch so many.  But then I have to think about that.  Like ripples on a pond our actions and behaviors affect the whole of that pond.  So what can I do as a human being that is part of this great humanity in existence?  I can learn to manage my own ripples and waves so that as they go out and away from me, they go with love, they go with understanding, they go with light and they go with healing.  The wake I leave behind me traversing my own path must be my focus. What is it that I wish to leave behind me?  Is it good or bad by my own standards?  Are those standards in true alignment with my own soul’s purpose?  I can’t really think it through because it is not my mind that can dictate a thing as right or wrong but rather a vibrating frequency of alignment I feel as I go.  Where I to become twisted, hurt or angry as I go, I know something isn’t right in my own behavior.  That has to be my guide for I know in my path my goal is understanding, my goal is light and my goal is to weave much love and compassion into all that I do.  Am I successful at it all of the time?  Certainly not but I always aspire to be all that I can and to accomplish what I came for and I know, so too, does everyone else…each in his or her own way.

So, my thought and theme for the day is this, seek you much understanding.  Rather than a quick judgment in the negative, harsh words or blame which creates much toxicity within you primarilly, consider first, does this thought bring me up or down?  Does this thought bring up others or bring them down?  Am I supporting my own light and love?  Am I supporting and honoring the light and love in another?  Every single thing that we do matters and contributes to the whole of existence.  What mark do you truly wish to leave on this world with your beloved presence with in it?  Does it lend more depth and definition to the collective or does it hinder or hurt in some way?  I bring you only food for thought and not one single thing that can be proven definitively wrong or right and life here is like that by design. 

One thing I do must definitely suggest is that you question your beliefs and perceptions.  Are they true?  How do you know?  Question how you think you might “know” and you may come to understand the Secrets of the entirety of the Universe and that choice is up to you.  There are precious seconds between thought and action.  These precious seconds are more valuable than any mineral or element on this Earth.  How will you spend them?  What will you then do?  Blessings of great wisdom, love, compassion and understanding fellow members of this Great Humanity.


© 2014 Jaie Hart (photo and words)


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Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Ethereal Consciousness




I thought I knew who and what I was
Until for a moment I wasn’t
I thought I knew where and when I existed
Until a moment I didn’t

I cannot suppose what my senses perceive
Is the ultimate and definitive truth of anything
For in one single moment was I shown
All that I thought I knew
Was merely a belief or a projection
A projection that could stop projecting

I am not who I thought I was
I am not what I thought I was
I am not always where I think I am
I don’t always exist as I think that I do

When I throw my senses away
When I throw my perceptions away
When I throw my beliefs away
When I throw my thoughts away

What am I other than, I am?
For if I can observe, I must at least exist
There is one thing and one thing only that comes to me now,
I am Ethereal Consciousness

For in Ethereal Consciousness belief isn’t necessary
And location is not required
A vehicle and time can both be rendered meaningless
As can be the senses and their related perceptions


Without accepting a paradigm of provisional truths
When everything I think I know
Is willfully given up in my thoughts
I still am


Therefore, I am 

And so, I exist
I am Ethereal Consciousness
Even when I am not


© 2014 Jaie Hart (photo and words)